Boys, Cry!

“One of the first lessons I was taught as a boy growing up is don’t cry, boys don’t cry, boys don’t share their emotions,” said Keith Simpson, a Learning Facilitator at the Liger Leadership Academy, “which was kind of difficult for me, because I was a very expressive, very sensitive person so . . . there was a conflict in what I was being taught vs. what I felt.” Some people are more expressive than others with their feelings, but […]

White Cloth Vs. Gold

A common phrase spoken by Cambodians is “មនុស្សស្រីប្រៀបដូចជាកំណាត់សមួយ នៅពេលដែលប៉ះរបស់មិនស្អាត វានឹងនៅជាប់លើរហូត រីឯបុរសវិញ ប្រៀបដូចទៅនឹងមាសទឹកដប់ ទោះបីជាប្រលាក់អ្វីក៏ដោយ ក៏នៅតែលាងជ្រះ នៅតែស្អាតនិងមានតម្លៃដដែល។” which translates to “A woman is like a white cloth, when stained it is ruined forever, but on other hand, a man is like a piece of gold, no matter how dirty, it is still precious and valuable. In Cambodia nowadays, men and women are seen differently, as this famous phrase clearly shows. This mindset is still alive in our contemporary culture and affects the […]

Transnational Marriage

Matthew Lee is a British chef who is married to a Khmer woman in Cambodia. He has been living with his wife for over 6 years now. They have two kids, and live a good life. Their marriage is cross-cultural marriage and something that is becoming increasingly common in the world. However, it is a controversial topic in history as well as the present.   Cross cultural marriage is an unpopular discussion amongst the older generation throughout Cambodia. It refers […]

Poem: “Pounds” – Namkyu Oh

Every yearly checkup, I would always argue with my pediatrician and her scale. I was nine and told her it read 155, not 156. I still have days where I check the scale more often than the time. I sometimes step on it and wait until the number drops a decimal. I am a senior in college and still rush from the showers to my room. I lost my virginity in high school and remember spooning her with a sucked-in […]

Valentina Tereshkova

This is Valentina Tereshkova, originally a textile worker from the ancient of town of Yaroslavl, also known as the Hero of the Soviet Union. She is currently 80 years old, and was the first woman to travel into space with Vostok 6 mission, during June 13, 1963. Valentina was born on March 6, 1937 in Soviet Russia. In 1953 Valentina attended and graduated with distinction from Zhukovsky Military Air Academy. When she was 22, she was very interested in parachute […]

SHE For She – SHE investment

“Instead of letting women ask us for solutions, let us invest in them,” said Lida Loem. Cambodian women and girls are still experiencing pressure and limitations because of their gender. It is the cultural aspects, tradition, and stereotypes that have set glass ceilings toward Khmer women and girls with the decisions of their future. There are struggles within their studies, jobs, and marriage. Creating and sustaining businesses can be challenging for women in Cambodia. Only 65% of women are having […]